All babies cry and some even more than others do.
Crying is the way your baby tells you they need comfort and care. Sometimes it is easy to understand what they want, and sometimes it is not. However, as your baby grows, they will learn other ways to communicate with you, so you will slowly get into the rhythm.
Here are some reasons why your baby may cry and what you can try to soothe them:
Hunger is one of the most common reasons why your baby will cry, especially if they are a newborn. If you are breastfeeding, offer them a breast, even if the last feeding does not seem so long ago. This is called reactive feeding. The baby will let you know when they have had enough, coming down from your breast in his own time, looking satisfied.
If your baby is on a formula milk, keep in mind that every baby is different. If they do not consistently complete their feeding, they may like to drink formula more often in smaller amounts.
Infant colic is one of the reasons why babies cry a lot and intensely. Your baby may blush, be frustrated, and reject your efforts to calm them. They can clench their fists, pull out their knees, or bend their back.
Living with a baby who cries inconsolably and regularly can be very stressful. It is important to take care of yourself, so that you have the patience and energy to calm your little one down. These tactics can help you deal with colic.
Tiredness is also one of the common reasons why babies cry. Your baby may have difficulty falling asleep, especially if they are too tired. The younger your baby is, the more subtle their sleep signs are, so you will need time to recognize them.
Try taking them to a quiet room after feeding and before bed to help them calm down and turn off.
The baby is too hot or too cold. Do not be guided by the temperature of the baby's arms or legs. It is normal for them to feel colder than the rest of their body. Instead, you can check to see if your baby has a hot or cold belly or nape.
Generally, they should wear one layer of clothing more than you to feel comfortable. If their belly feels too hot, remove a cover or layer, and if it feels cold, simply add it.
A wet diaper can be a reason for crying in some babies, especially if the skin under the diaper is irritated.
Some babies do not like changing diapers, which may be due to the unusual feeling of cold air on the skin. Do not worry, after a few days, you will probably be a lot more adept at changing diapers quickly.
Sometimes it is just about your baby's need to cuddle. 😊
Swinging and singing to them, as you hold them close, will help distract and comfort them. You can try to attach the baby to yourself with a special bracket for this purpose. That way you would keep them with you longer. They love the sound of your heartbeat, the warmth of your body and your smell.
The baby may cry if they do not feel well. Then the crying would probably be different from the one you are used to.
Babies are often irritable and restless in the week before a new tooth passes. If your baby cries persistently and has a temperature of 38ºC or higher (if they are less than three months old) or 39ºC or higher (if they are three to six months old), vomits or has diarrhea or constipation - see a doctor.
